Dating with Match.com Scam Alert

It has been brought to my attention recently, women and men out there; Heads Up! This might not necessarily make your hair on the back of your neck stand. To me, this is wild and wooly! I listen to CoasttoCoastam and their stories make the hair on the back of my neck stand up. I woke up this morning and decided, my countrymen and countrywomen better know what I am about to expose.

Suggesting love or soulmate, there ARE a lot of us who are plain bored or lonely looking for something ideal. Online, seems to be the place even for this... the caveat emptor applies here as well as any other consumer product that might make its way out to the general public. Having been given a 72 hour free trial with Match.com that would allow me the freedom to contact some I might find an interest or compatibility, thought I would see for myself.

This caveat emptor affects our borders. It is not just the 'fence' and the 'border war' with Mexico. Apparently, along with finding ways to get into our country there are ways to get in besides our jobs or benefits like green card and citizenship. The scam involves our hearts. It pulls on our emotions if we fall for someone hard. We can do this heart and soul. For many of us, we need the security of a relationship with some one. Whether, we decide to live with them or not eventually, that is an individual choice or lifestyle.

There is a telltale way of knowing whether or not these are 'African'- continent born invaders from Nigeria or Ghana. They have got as far as France, UK and Canada but they are corresponding to you and you might not even realize it. You are helping them in one way or another financially. There is a heartbreaking disaster or illness of some kind that mysteriously arose and it made its way by pen or text to you.

I can tell you, there is a pattern depending on how extravagant they are living. You might not be the only one supplying their designer clothes lifestyle. The supply is never ending online of people willing to give up their hard earned money for being a 'humanitarian'. In the King's English there are proper ways of writing. Be careful; its getting harder to tell who you ARE actually dealing with. Think with your heart and not your head, will always get you in a world of trouble. Keep your emotions in check when dealing with people online. You never know, really.

You might live on a fixed income or you have money to spare. Please don't fall for the sad stories abroad. They will be back in the United States in a couple days. They have a great looking picture, say the right things and have a secure or impressive job. What do they say about flattery? It will get someone any where.

The 'homeland security' is not going to do its job if we don't help protect what we have. We are about ready to lose it all. Read between the lines if you must and hold it to heart. Incredible as it sounds, they can even type faster than you sometimes and can come up with incredible responses. Its because they have a script already prepared in some cases. Be very suspicious if you must. We are at war. This is a very serious situation whether any of us realize it or not.